Currently watching a prog about kidney donation.
I'm not sure if selecting the recipient is a good idea like you said.
Meeting them afterwards is another thing.
The prog is now on about people in Asia who are willingly selling their organs for a better life.
Personally, joking apart, I've got two, what happens if I donate one, then get kidney probs later in life.
I think I'll keep onto mine, if a family member needs one, I'm there for them though