If there is anyone likely to be offended by my post, its Fly, as my post suggested in a tongue-in-cheek way, that he may be involved.
There was no offence aimed at any real victim / family. But as per your post on political correctness, soon we won't be able to joke about anything will we. All jokes have a "victim" or they are not funny. The difference is that some of us can decide where offence really lays, and some others think they should speak up for all the victims, and class them all together.
If there is a girls body found and she's your daughter, then I apologise if my comments upset you, but I don't think Fly will be personally upset about my comment if its nothing to do with him.